The Meaning of A Family
I considered myself as a lucky person as i believe that i have a great and fabulous family. But not all peoples in this would be as lucky as i am to have such a great family.
My family,always a helpful, a cheerful, a suportive in every way. We are happy,we are unite, and we are together in sadness,happiness,trouble, and joy..
But there is a story,where it was making me more realize how grateful i am to have my own family. Where making me run my tears abruptly whenever i can see how people in this world can be such a 'calculative' and 'cruel' person to their own families eventhough there are in trouble, where they need help and support from their other families.
There is a guy,in trouble which put him in a situation where he needs a help from a 'family'. This guy named 'A' was having trouble with his car. His car needs some fixation and needs to be in a workshop for a few days. He asked a help from this 'family' to lend him a car. Not for sighseeing purpose, not for leisure purpose,but for his usage to go to work daily along his 'not-have-car' day. Not for even a month or a year,but only for a few days. This 'family' have two cars at home parked peacefully and staticly, where this 'family' only used his motorcycle for his daily routine to work since he worked across the causeway. Since his 2 cars are not being used daily,and were just parked inside his garage house,there is nothing can go wrong if he can lend 'A' one of his car to work.
But he refused to do that even after 'A' asked his permission to borrow his car for only a few days until 'A''s car is ready. He put a lot of reasons and a lot of excuses in order to give 'A' a hint that 'no still mean no'
This is one kind of a stingy people. He is not being stingy with peoples,but with his family. This situation is not the 1st time happpened to 'A' but previosly it is happened where 'A' borrowed his car and he gave 'A' to use it without prejudice. But few days later he text 'A' and said to return the car because he wanted to send the car to the service centre hence to bring his wife and kids to somewhere for a holiday. After returning the car,the 'family' is not doing anything to that car. Even he has another car that he can use instead of that 'borrowing car'. The car was neither not send to the service centre, nor the family are not going to holiday. This is just an excuse. This is just a dirty-rubbish way to get back the car.
Thing seems worst when 'A' and the 'family' is living under one roof. The 'family' cannot even talked directly instead he is just texting 'A'. And the worst part when living under one roof is that 'A' saw how this car is left unused at the garage house after he returned that car
That's it. People can chnge to another form of different thingy when it comes to money or things. But please,this is your family who is asking for your help. Is the car,the money, the little thingy is much more important than a family?
Please change yourself if u think so.
A lesson learned is that not all family can always lend their hands for a help. Not all family can lend their penny for others.
But i believe that my family will.
Footnote : still cant believe that this is happened around me,among peoples that i know. And i still run my tears out whenever i remember how cruel this 'family' is. But i believe that this is part of 'dugaan nak kawen' huhu
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